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Same-Sex Marriage
In the battle over House Joint Resolution 29, the Legislature is missing the point.


Let's say you're an unmarried female. You work for state government, and you live with another woman. By law, your employer must extend health benefits to your roommate.

Now let's say you're that same woman but you live with a male. By law, your employer owes your roommate nothing.

This absurd situation exists in Oregon because of the Tanner decision, a ruling made last year by the state Court of Appeals. According to the decision, state and local agencies must provide benefits to same-sex partners. The only conditions are that the partners live together, have a joint checking account and are both over 18.

Partners of different sex? They don't qualify--unless they are married.

This kooky state of affairs is likely to lead to yet another statewide election on gay rights, one that will be as divisive as any Oregon has suffered through in the past.

The Tanner decision itself isn't silly. Written by Judge Jack Landau, it's a reasoned and even groundbreaking attempt to recognize that gays deserve the same rights as heterosexuals. But since Oregon doesn't allow gay marriage, Tanner had no choice but to tip the scales--way on the side of gays--by giving almost all gays rights that unmarried heteros don't enjoy.

Actually, sexual orientation is not even the issue. Conceivably, if a straight male state employee shared a house with both a man and a woman, he would be able to get health insurance for his male roomie but not for the woman.

A good deal of gab was uttered in Salem last week as the House considered the issues wrought by Tanner. While it was a welcome respite from the school budget battle, the proposals that emerged were about as creative as oatmeal. Most Republicans, led by Reps. Bill Witt and Kevin Mannix, are backing House Joint Resolution 29, a constitutional amendment that would overturn the Tanner decision and deny benefits to same-sex partners. The Democrats, led by Rep. Randall Edwards, are offering up a different amendment that would keep the Tanner decision in place. If either measure were to get through both chambers, it would go directly to the ballot--perhaps as early as this November.

Unfortunately, both of these efforts fail to acknowledge the real hand Tanner has dealt Oregonians: the case for same-sex marriage.

The legal recognition of same-sex unions is the only way around the mess Tanner has created for us--a situation in which the most casual of same-sex relationships has to be treated as seriously as a binding and legal commitment between a man and a woman.

Of course, there's little hope that the Legislature will embrace this issue, even though a number of elected officials have privately expressed support. No state in the union currently recognizes same-sex marriage. In Hawaii, there was an effort to make gay marriage legal, but it was defeated last year. Moreover, last year Congress passed--and President Clinton signed--the Defense of Marriage Act, which allows states to refuse to acknowledge same-sex marriages that may some day take place in other states. Even the gay lobby seems frightened to discuss the matter.

The truth is that same-sex unions would help save the institution of marriage. If non-married couples can get all the privileges that are extended to couples who make a legal commitment, marriage will eventually become meaningless. But because of the equal-rights provision of state constitutions, more and more courts will have little choice but to agree with Tanner and say that marriage is really nothing very special.

Call us old-fashioned, but we think it is.

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Willamette Week | originally published June 9, 1999


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