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INTERVIEW
Mommy DANGEROUS
In her latest book, Motherhood Made a Man Out of Me, daredevil writer Karen Karbo argues that nothing takes more balls than having a kid.



BY SUSAN WICKSTROM
243-2122 ext. 328


Karbo will read from Motherhood Made a Man Out of Me at Powell's,
1005 W Burnside St., 228-4651.
7:30 pm Friday, June 23.
Free.
Local novelist mommies Whitney Otto and April Henry will read
as well.

Fast Company magazine's end paper is called "The Spy in the House of Work." Karbo is the spy.

Karbo will follow lucy.com at the Hood-to-Coast race for a Fast Company article. Her book on divorce, Generation Ex, will be published next year.


She's fed sharks in the Caribbean and flown high on the flying trapeze. She's gone to surf camp and shooting school. She's tried street luging and monster roller coasters. She even hung out for two weeks in her bathing suit next to volleyball goddess Gabrielle Reece. Portland writer Karen Karbo seems absolutely intrepid when she researches her magazine articles, but she was truly challenged by something that happens every day: "Nothing," she reports, "is as extreme as having a kid."

The tall redhead looks like any Portland mommy, but unlike most mommies, she goes to work in the waters off Venezuela or on a San Clemente beach. "I don't think I'm a very good journalist," Karbo confesses. "The stuff I do is professional Guinea pig. I go and experience something that would be hilarious for me write about for many reasons." Karbo offers a novice's refreshing look at terrifying activities for such magazines as Outside, Fast Company and Condé Nast Women's Sports and Fitness. And her new comic novel, Motherhood Made a Man Out of Me, is more of the same.

Motherhood, set in Portland, tells the story of a new mother whose friend, a financially independent single woman, becomes pregnant herself.

"It was originally written in 1992," Karbo says. "We got a few offers on it, but nothing really spectacular. My agent felt that the tone of the book was too edgy for the way most people perceived motherhood and mothers. I said I would rather wait and hold onto it."

Sitting on a novel for eight years instead of taking the money--any money-- is another example of the size of Karbo's cojones. But in 1992, she had already proven herself as a novelist.

Karbo grew up in Southern California and graduated from USC film school. She spent a few years in L.A. writing several screenplays, none of which ever saw celluloid. In 1982, she moved to Portland and took a job at the Northwest Film Center. "Out of desperation," she says, "because I was feeling frustrated, I thought I'd write some fiction and see what happens." In 1988, she won a General Electric Younger Writers Fellowship. The next year, she published her debut novel, Trespassers Welcome Here, closely followed by The Diamond Lane. Both books were named a New York Times Notable Book of the Year. So when she finished Motherhood in 1992, she really didn't have to prove anything with her fiction. She turned to new challenges.

"I began writing for Outside magazine in 1993," says Karbo. "One of the assignments I got was to do a profile of Gabrielle Reece. That was turned into a book, and Condé Nast Women's Sports and Fitness signed me on as a contributing editor." She seems slightly surprised that she's developed a reputation as a daredevil hooked on danger cocktails. "It wasn't something I set out to do," she says, "but I always liked to travel and I like to be scared."

Karbo's work takes her to places that most sane adults would much rather read about than experience themselves. "One year I went to surf camp in San Clemente, California," she says. "It was like, me and 20 14-year-old boys. It was hilarious; I actually got a surfing nickname, which is Grown Woman. Last year, I went to trapeze school at the San Francisco School of Circus Arts." Karbo will always do something that's a little terrifying, though she thinks she may be losing her taste for it. "I took a little break after I did the flying trapeze story. They told me it was going to be such a big adrenalin dump and it was going to change my life. But there I was, hanging, thinking 'This is high, and my armpits hurt, but I'm not particularly afraid.' That frightened me, that I wasn't feeling more terrified."

Few things actually terrify Karbo. She didn't like the big roller coasters at Universal Studios but only because she has a fear of throwing up. But sharks, heights and big waves don't faze her. "I did a story on women in extreme sports and interviewed a street luger, an extreme skier, a snowboarder and a BASE jumper who jumps off bridges. All of them said, 'Oh, this is much easier than having a child. Giving birth--whoa, that is extreme.'"

Karbo wrote Motherhood Made a Man Out of Me when her daughter was an infant. "I was moved by how uncompromising the experience was. I was shocked. I remember being in labor thinking, 'This is really inhumane. I can't believe that nature--that evolution--thinks this is a better idea than laying an egg.'"

Men will probably enjoy the book too (there's lots of basketball stuff), even though it contains many of childbirth's gory details. "The first post-natal bowel movement," she groans. "Oh my God, it's so painful, it's worse than having the baby." There's no question. Karbo is one of Portland's most extreme writers.

 



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Willamette Week | originally published April 26, 2000

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