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Q&A
Indian Traveler Mira Kamdar
BY
SUSAM WICKSTROM
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She's as cosmopolitan
as they come. As a child, Mira Kamdar spent months at a time with
her father's family in India. Her
current job as a World Policy Institute fellow in New York allows
her to influence powerful people around the world. Yet Kamdar has
deep roots here in Oregon. Her Danish-American mother was raised
on a farm near Junction City, and Kamdar graduated from Reed College.
So it was only natural for her to hear the Douglas fir calling when
she grew weary of the New York City rat race. Now she divides her
time between a Manhattan loft and five acres in rural Vancouver,
Wash.
Kamdar may have
inherited
her migratory lifestyle from her roaming Indian ancestors. Her book,
Motiba's Tattoos: A Grand-daughter's Journey into Her Indian
Family's Past, chronicles the circuitous route that took her
Gujarati merchant family across India to Burma, back to India
and finally to the United States.
Indian culture
has folded effortlessly into the American mainstream--chai, yoga,
henna, tattoos--yet we tend to stereotype people from South Asia
as either spiritual gurus or impoverished beggars. India is actually
the most ethnically diverse country in the world.
Last week Kamdar
sat down
for lunch in a Vancouver Thai restaurant to talk about how Indian
immigrants are changing American culture.
Willamette
Week: Why did you move back to the Northwest?
Mira Kamdar:
I was buying beer for a party a couple of years ago in the East
Village. I reached into the refrigerator and pulled out this six-pack
of Oregon brand India Pale Ale. Here's this Central Oregon scene
with Mount Jeff and deer...it was my Proustian moment, I could smell
the evergreen.
How does
someone get a job in a think tank like the World Policy Institute?
Most people
get jobs in foreign-policy political think tanks because they have
PhDs in political science, they went to the Fletcher School of Diplomacy,
they worked for the state department or held a job in a political
administration. Lots of people are about to hit the think tank job
applications in the coming weeks.
What kind
of reception did you get there?
I was the first
woman; there were only white men. I started to work on things like
women's human rights and the global AIDS epidemic. They were smart
enough
to know that it was good that I was doing this stuff. Then I started
focusing on India because of my family history.
Does Portland
have a large Indian community?
The South Asian
community in Portland numbers about 10,000, which is very small;
the New York metropolitan area has about a million. That includes
people from India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and other parts of South
Asia. There's a large portion of people involved in high tech, especially
software engineers working for Intel. There's even a local expression,
the "Intel Indians." There are a few local business owners, a few
restaurants, a certain number of doctors, a couple of gas stations,
I've noted.
What about
the women I see in my neighborhood who wear the traditional garb--what
are they going through?
It's particularly
hard for the wives of some of these engineers, because often they
don't have strong English language skills, their husband is the
one who has the visa, and they can end up being very isolated. If
they have their head covered in a sari, they're probably coming
from a traditional background and they're recent immigrants. In
most traditional Indian settings, women are very cloistered at home.
They have all the power in the home, but when they go out the front
door, they are fairly disempowered.
How do traditional
Indian women view American women?
Partly mystery
and partly every American woman stereotype: aggressive, masculine,
disrespectful, loose. There's probably a lot of curiosity. One of
the great fears of many immigrant Indian parents is that their daughter
will be too American--she won't be marriageable, because who wants
a bride like that?
Do Indian
immigrants have a
better life here?
Certainly from
a material standpoint, and that's why people want to come. If you're
an engineer or doctor or anybody who's highly educated, you can
make more money than you can make in India. My cousin and his wife
live in a pleasant, clean Seattle suburb with sidewalks and trees
and good schools. When their parents come to visit from India, my
aunt just wants to look out at the green belt out back. Even though
they live in a very nice apartment in New Delhi, it's the Third
World. No matter how rich you are, you're still confronted with
that stuff around you all the time: the pollution, the noise, the
dirt, the poverty.
Do you think
Americans co-opting Indian culture elevates it or diminishes it?
I think it makes
it feel less strange or foreign, but I don't think it really helps
people understand or know the other culture because it's always
appropriated. Teenage girls who are doing temporary henna tattooing--mendhi--at
a sleepover don't even know it comes from India; it's just the latest
thing to do. The things that are more long-lasting are the more
subtle ways that Indian culture is penetrating. You can go to the
supermarket freezer section and find Indian food. People from India
are doing mainstream cultural things. Look at all the hit movies
by Indian directors, like The Sixth Sense or The Cell.
There are more appearances by Indian characters on television shows
like ER. It used to be just the 24-hour market guy on The
Simpsons. Indians are starting to be part of the visible American
landscape.
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