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November 22nd, 2006 Amy Mccullough | RIFF CITY
 

Love-hate Songs

The Wherewithals keep workin' their way back to me, literally.

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The Wherewithals: Stacey Roesberry, John-Paul Longenecker, Ben Firestone, Sean McCormick and Chuck Townsend.
IMAGE: TIM GORMLEY
The first words you'll hear upon a visit to local indie-rock band the Wherewithals' MySpace page are "Pack up your shit/ Pack up your shit and get out of here." It's a fitting introduction to the band's oft-bitter, melancholic oeuvre of failed-love songs—and certainly not unfamiliar ground in the realm of songwriting.

Heartache and those who cause it have long been the subjects of great pop songs. From Dion's semi-playful warning about "Runaround Sue," Clapton's epic ode to "Layla" (George Harrison's once-wife Pattie Boyd, whom Clapton longed for, won and married, and then cheated on and divorced) or even Alanis Morissette's screaming about how "You Oughta Know," the paramount accomplishment of such songs—and the reason they're often so successful—is their ability to resonate with audiences. But what if the person "packing up their shit" is you?

Wherewithals lead singer Ben Firestone is my ex. In fact, he's my ex-fiancé and someone I spent six years of my life with. Though he hasn't spoken to me in three weeks, he's been singing about me every Saturday for over six months (assuming band-practice day hasn't changed). And much like I'd imagine it sucked for Joan Baez to hear Dylan's "Visions of Johanna" (whether it's truly about her or not), it isn't always easy for me to listen to the Wherewithals. As Baez probably knows, the only thing harder than hearing a song about how much you suck is hearing a great song about how much you suck—as is the case for me with the Wherewithals' Band of Horses-esque "Let You Go."

The song starts with a lone, brightly strummed guitar before the meandering lead steps in and hooks you. Then, Ben's gruff, world-worn voice (think Jeff Tweedy or Bill Janovitz) spits out such biting sentiments as "I should have let you drown/ I should have let you burn/ I should have let you go/ A long time ago." The Wherewithals also play cute/clever pop like "Robot"—which tells the story of a robot whose hard drive has been broken—and pseudo-romantic tracks like "Slow Again." And though the latter's lyrics—"You've got personality/ You've got all those things that I need/ You've got a smile that kills me/ You've got eyes that bring me to my knees"—probably seem sweet to listeners, they fucking kill me.

And, much like an average-looking guy or gal becomes hot onstage, most of the ugly emotions accompanying my breakup with Ben, believe it or not, melt away when I'm watching him do what he loves. He's at his absolute best onstage, and it makes me feel immensely proud and sad all at once. It also makes me wonder what his songs would be about if things had turned out differently.

I was clearly not welcome at the last Wherewithals show I attended, but I stuck it out because, however narcissistically, I love their songs. I stood face to face with my ex-lover and listened to him sing, vehemently, about me. But it feels like the passion in this band's music is, in some way, mine, too. I'm not sure I'll have enough of the Wherewithals' namesake to attend the next one, but you should, because you just might know exactly (well, not exactly) where their songs are coming from.


The Wherewithals play with the Morals Sunday, Nov. 26, at the Tonic Lounge. 9:30 pm. Cover. 21+. The band plans to release its debut, tentatively titled The Year of the Crow, in late spring 2007.
 
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11.22.2006 at 11:00 Reply
I am a little disappointed to read a review of a band i never heard of only to discover it's seemingly not a review of a band, but more of a letter to the writer's ex-boyfriend who hasnt talked to her in three weeks....

it says too little about the subject and alot more about someone's personal life that is really none of my buisness.

however, the writing is honest and emotional, and it does somewhat intrigue me as to what the band might sound like and how passionate the music may be in a live situation, with the ex-lovers in the same room sharing a moment at a distance.

marry the guy already.

 

11.23.2006 at 10:38 Reply
Hmmmm...music review as therapy...interesting concept. One would generally expect to find this sort of narcissistic rant somewhere out in the blogosphere, not prominantly featured in what purports to be a periodical with a sense of integrity.

When an artist bares their soul-whatever their chosen medium-it is a catharsis for them, exorsising the demons that, to one degree or another, exist within us all. This act of release also makes them vunerable due to the highly personal nature of the subject matter, and can cause some discomfort to anyone that might in fact be that subject matter.

When a journalist sets pen to paper, however, the expectation is that the reader will receive information which allows them to make decisions or form opinions on whatever topic is being written about, not be exposed to details involving the writer's personal life.

I count the members of the Wherewithals amoung my friends, and it seems that Ms. Mccullough has done them a huge disservice. True, Ben Firestone's songs and voice may drive the band, but Stacey, John-Paul, Chuck, and Sean help bring those songs to life and deserve more than a sidebar mention and the label 'cute/clever pop' .

I understand using the act of writing as a means of release, but kindly keep it in a more appropriate forum and reserve these pages for that which they are intended-news and information about our city and its culture.

 

11.25.2006 at 09:44 Reply
Pitiful. Is this what the reign of the new music editor will bring us? Features about all the friends/relatives/lovers/interns of Amy who have bands? Jesus, Amy, at least do what every other music editor/columnist in town does and DON'T COP to the fact that you're only writing about your friends and flunkies!

Failing that, why not just return to printing verbatim press release features from bands and labels, slapping on your own lede, and calling it a music column? At least we'll get some kind of perspective apart from your incestuous little cubicle.

Reform or resign, you dingy broad!

 

11.27.2006 at 03:19 Reply
Whoa there, Jonas, Marc, and Jimmy. I think you're all way off. Has anyone ever written a heartbroken song about you? If you someone has, you know it's a pretty surreal experience. But chances are, like me, you've never heard a song sung about how much of a heartbreaking jerk you are. Aren't you the least bit interested to read about what that's like?

Plus, sometimes it's really interesting to know what a song is about. I just wrote this review of the Wherewithals' show not only because it was a good set, but also because when you have the biographical information behind a song, it can change the way you hear it, even if you don't personally know the people involved.

 

11.30.2006 at 08:36 Reply
Who cares who a song is about? Question is: Is it a good song? Does knowing--if it's true--that "Visions of Johanna" is about Joan Baez really matter at all? 9 out of 10 times if the author--or anybody--has to explain what or who the piece is about, it's a sure sign that IT SUCKS. (Which in the case of the Wherewithalls may indeed make Amy's review a hit piece after all.)

I find that the less you know about an author and the background of the work the more you enjoy it. For, as the great Elvis Costello wrote, "Was it a millionaire/who said 'Imagine no possessions?'..."

Amy's and WW's embarassment over this installment of Riff City will only grow as time goes by. See, Jason, this is the kind of eyewash that the local press has to forego to reach beyond the Bush League.

I'm surprised at a top-notch scribe like you coming to the defense of such arglebargle. You're one of the best writing for this rag!

 

 
 

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