Professional Cuddler Samantha Hess Is Getting Cozy With Clients Again. Getting Comfortable Is Another Matter.

She’s just started doing outbound sessions again—clients must fill out a waiver and submit to no-touch temperature checks, and certain “cuddle poses” are now off limits.

The staff of Cuddle Up to Me. IMAGE: Courtesy of Samantha Hess.

WW presents "Distant Voices," a daily video interview for the era of social distancing. Our reporters are asking Portlanders what they're doing during quarantine.

Samantha Hess tears up as she describes the first cuddle session she's had in months.

"I miss it so much," says the professional cuddler, whose specializes in using nonsexual touch as a form of therapy. "We get to be like little baby kittens, and it's so sweet to be next to someone and share that space and have that moment where things are OK for a minute."

In late June, Hess was forced to close her Northeast Portland studio, Cuddle Up to Me, as a result of the statewide economic shutdown related to COVID-19. In the intervening weeks, Hess attempted to adjust to a world where physical contact between strangers was inadvisable. She launched a Patreon, and put up a YouTube video of herself staring into her webcam so her clients could access her for "virtual eye gazing" at literally any point of the day.

Related: Portland's Professional Cuddler Is Figuring Out How to Connect With Clients in the Era of Social Distancing.

She's hoping to reopen Cuddle Up to Me in a new building sometime in the fall. For now, she's figuring how her specific brand of healing works in Phase 1. She's just started doing outbound sessions again, with multiple precautions in place—clients must fill out a waiver and submit to no-touch temperature checks, and certain "cuddle poses" are now off limits.

Hess is grateful she can get cozy with clients again. But as she tells us, feeling comfortable is another matter entirely.

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Matthew Singer

A native Southern Californian, former Arts & Culture Editor Matthew Singer ruined Portland by coming here in 2008. He is an advocate for the canonization of the Fishbone and Oingo Boingo discographies, believes pro-wrestling is a serious art form and roots for the Lakers. Fortunately, he left Portland for Tucson, Arizona, in 2021.

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